Sunday, February 7, 2016

Give thanks! Many people use prayer when they need something, but praying is also for giving thanks for all your blessings.....

Sunday, January 31, 2016

"Show me what you brag about and i'll show you what you lack"

Friday, January 29, 2016

No problem ahead of you is more powerful than the God behind you.. Be grateful so you won't walk around being hateful

Wednesday, January 27, 2016

"The best revenge is happiness, because nothing drives haters more crazy then seeing someone actually living a good life."

Tuesday, January 26, 2016


Tuesday, January 19, 2016

Flatter me, and I may not believe you.

Criticize me, and I may not like you.

Ignore me, and I may not forgive you.

Encourage me, and I will not forget you.

Love me, and I may be forced to love you.

Saturday, January 16, 2016


I just wanna know where have all the good girls gone?  You know the women that remind you of how it use to be. Good, subservient, committed, old-fashioned, traditional women.  These days, alot of women are living out their lives on the television screen, Basketball Wives, Real Housewives and other so-called "reality" shows. When in all actuality, thats not reality. It's not even the cast's reality. It is strictly entertainment. Then women wonder why men date outside of their race to find what their looking for.  Let's keep it real, we know that certain races are more submissive to their mate than others. Yeah I said it! Lol...Don't hurt me too bad.
Never let people who has contributed so little to you,  control so much of you.

Thursday, January 14, 2016


As you grow older, you love again, and the new love feels so different that the love before feels like make-believe.  

The way you love changes throughout  your life.  Even the way you love the same person changes.

Sunday, January 10, 2016


 I was going to write on this, but Steve Harvey sums it up exactly how I would have written it, from a MAN'S point of view. Ladies, unless your male friend happens to be GAY, this observation is a fact about 99% of the time. It is another one of those things that make men and women different. ENJOY!

Someone just wrote:: “This lady said I don't like BIG churches”  I replied, "What do you think Heaven's gonna be like? (lol)
Gods gift to you is your talent...What you do with it is your gift to him.

Thursday, January 7, 2016

Age is a measure of time. Wisdom is the measure of how we used that time.
If they can anger you they can put u in danger....anger is 1 letter short of (d)anger.


How do you keep a man? The Ratchet answer would be to give him the best ass he’s ever had. But those who think that are single and currently figuring out what dress to wear to the club this weekend. Women who have locked down men, and I’m not talking about 6 months, I’m talking years, those women brought something to the table much more powerful than good sex.

You think you’re pretty, you think you’re smart, I bet you think you’re the most interesting woman on the planet right? But how do men view you? I’m not talking about does he turn and look when you walk by, let’s go deeper than the physical bullshit girls use as a crutch. Does he think you’re smart? Does he find you interesting? Are you classy in his mind or just another basic broad he’s ran through? Take a moment to think about the last dude you were seriously involved with. What did he like most about you? If it was something like “My smile” or “The way I rode it” you have a serious problem. Are you the type of woman he can spend all day talking to and has a connection deeper than the physical attraction or are you simply Pussy? And by Pussy I mean your only value to that man is to satisfy his physical needs. Your job is to make him cum. Pussy isn’t just the hoe or the slut, it’s also the girlfriend who we have no intention of marrying or keeping around past a year. Men love pussy, but we do not marry Pussy. A man may show Pussy off to his friends. He might buy Pussy gifts. Occasionally Pussy gets to come out of the house and get treated to dinner. Pussy even gets pregnant and becomes the Baby Mama. But he NEVER EVER marries Pussy. All men see women as Pussy initially, but after a few conversations we can decide if she’s more.

Are you the type he wifes or are you just the pussy?

Does he take you out? Stop being the drive thru hoe. Yeah he’s on hard times, his pockets aren’t built like that, but guess what? That nigga has money to buy a $59.99 PS3 game; he can scrape up a few dollars to take you to a restaurant that doesn’t have pictures on the menu. Your homgirls are single and fine dining and you’re taking Wing Stop to go, you’re not winning because you have a man, you’re losing because you have a man who keeps your dumb ass on Dracula duty, buried in the crib, only coming out when it’s time to buy condoms and Dutch masters.

Have you met his family? I’m not talking about his boys at the smoke house who he chills with and you happen to tag along. Has his mother laid eyes on you? I remember sneaking this girl into my mother’s house and she caught me. I was pissed because this girl was dumb as a brick, and my mother is nosey. My mother asked how she was doing and the bitch stood there as if she were asked to name elements from the periodic table. For years she joked me about the “retarded chinky eyed girl”. If he’s feeling you, you’ll meet the people who are most important to him. Being in the car and waving “hi” or seeing someone for a minute isn’t an introduction. Stop being smuggled hoe!

What do you talk about? “We spend all night on the phone talking, we have so much in common”, Bitch please. Do you know how many hours I’ve spent on the phone with girls who I couldn’t stand? I’ve stayed up until 6am more times than I can count, and it wasn’t because the girl was interesting, it was because I wanted what she had and was putting in work. Take away the gossip, the TV show talk, and the sexual flirting; what the fuck did I talk to you about? We both like the same colors… wow. We both randomly know Chauncey the stick up boy… incredible.  Spending twenty minutes saying “Did You Miss Me” and having a back and forth on who missed who gets played. The number one question a man wants to know, “When can I see you”. Why? Because you’re Pussy and we can’t get Pussy over the phone.

Are You Jeopardy Girl or Family Feud Girl? You’re not the brightest, you can tie your shoe and put your hair into a bun, but that’s where your genius ends. Stop pretending as if you visit before you visit  It’s okay to be into basic shit, but be able to put together a sentence. If I say, “So why didn’t you like Black Swan” don’t come at me with, “That was some white people shit”. That’s not a movie review, that’s a woman with poor analytical skills who tuned out as soon as she realized this wasn’t a comedy. There are more important things than who Chris Brown is fucking. If I wanted to date a woman with the life experience of a 17 year old I would have become a gym teacher or a stepfather.Stop being afraid to ask questions, research things you don’t understand, have a desire to be the best dressed at the party and the most interesting.

If a man won’t commit then he sees you as Pussy. You were in a relationship for 3 months, and he started acting funny… Did you really break up with him or did he sabotage the relationship after your Pussy expired? Yes, pussy has an expiration date. It expires exactly 3-4 months after we first hit it. The more you smash the faster it expires. It’s not milk, you can continue to hit pussy after it’s long expired, people are married and love hitting expired pussy, it still feels good. But it will never be at the height it was when it was considered new pussy. As a wise man once said, “There’s no pussy like new pussy, and that’s how a nigga feel”. Being extra freaky or dating during the winter months may buy you an extra two months of that new pussy smell, but that’s it. No matter If it lasts 4 months or 6 months, the man will show signs of cabin fever because you don’t have anything real that keeps him tied to you. This man didn’t suddenly become an asshole, that’s not the real reason you’re arguing after months of lovey dovey shit, he’s tired of your pussy and he’s ready to move on to the next girl because you don’t stimulate him mentally. Sure he may come back to hit it after the relationship is over, but no junkie stops cold turkey. The point is he’s now only using you for Pussy, and that reaffirms that from the jump he saw you as Pussy never wifey! There is no such thing as Marry Me Pussy. No matter how good you think your shot is, there has yet to be a vagina built that can make a man throw a ring on it. Personality, charm, charisma > Pussy. If you want to keep a man, not just have someone to roll around in the bed and eat lemon pepper strips with, look in the mirror and ask, “Would I want me?” It’s like a job interview, the strengths are obvious and often times exaggerated. The weaknesses, those are hard to figure out, it’s not because you don’t have any, it’s because we rarely take a serious look at what’s wrong with us. Other than stupidity which we can’t really cure, there are several things that hold men back from promoting women, but here are my top two,

Are You Boring: No one wants a girl who sits around saying “I’m bored”? If you’re a bored female, that means you are boring. I don’t care how pretty you are I don’t want to waste my time with a boring chick who always needs to be entertained by the most basic shit.  I’m bored my phone’s not ringing today. I’m bored nobody’s texting me. I’m bored nothing’s on TV. Guess what? I’m bored after fucking you for a month because all you do is seek attention. Your coochie may be wet, but your personality is dry! There are people that make things happen and there are people who complain that nothing’s happening. Which are you?

Are You Loyal: Yeah yeah you would never cheat physically, but who do you talk to besides him? Who do you flirt with besides him? Men know when a female has an active phonebook. Do you think he’s going to see you as more than a good time girl if you have dudes blowing up your phone? He can say, “cut every other dude off for me” but let’s be realistic, you have excuses to why you talk to these niggas, he’s your brother, he’s your best male friend, you work with him… the list goes on. If you’re not willing to let go of your backup dick, why should he upgrade you from the Pussy to the potential wifey?

If you are a girl who’s tired of the dating game and want something deeper than 9 inches and a text message, then it’s time to get serious and change the way men view you. When you go out on dates have something to say, push the conversation in directions you haven’t taken it before. Show him that you aren’t like the rest of these girls out here; make him feel as if you’re the type of woman he can raise children with… not drop children in. They say that beside every great man there is a great woman. History doesn’t remember women who could do it with no hands; they remember women who could do it with their brains. Stop Being Pussy, that’s how you keep a man.

Those who put everything in God's hand, will eventually see God's hand in everything.

Monday, January 4, 2016

My Daniel Fast

I am beginning my Daniel Fast today!  On a quest to feed my soul,  strengthen my spirit and renew my body,  while growing closer to God.

Sunday, January 3, 2016


You cannot be with a man 24 hours a day, and there must be trust in every relationship. Some men are weak and sometimes need assistance in preventing themselves from getting in trouble. This is why there are certain women that you, as his wife/girlfriend/ fiancĂ©, keep him as far away from as possible. 

1. The Low Self Esteem Chick

You know this girl. The girl with self esteem so low that she will do almost anything for attention from a male. It does not matter how minimal the attention is, she will take it. She is lacking self love and wants someone to confirm it for her. She needs men to tell her how beautiful and wonderful she is constantly. Her antics appear to be over the top because they are a cry for attention from anyone with a penis.

2. The Sluttish Friend

She is the chick in your crew who is a sweet heart and would give you her paycheck and food stamps if you needed it, BUT (always a but with people who are too nice) she is a whore, and also a border line nympho. She will sleep with anyone, doesn't matter if he is in a relationship, married, or your daddy. Her only goal is to get hers. She is the chick that will hate on you at the club when she notices that guys are giving you more attention than her. She will always be the one to do something "sluttish" to attract male attention.

3. The Model Chick

She gets a break because truth be told, she cannot help that she is gorgeous, or modelesque. Blame God for that one. This chick might be a good person at heart and have no ill intentions towards you or your relationship. The only problem with her is that she is every man’s dream girl. Despite her innocence in this, just to prevent temptation on your man’s part, keep these two as far apart as possible.

4. The Needy/Annoying Ex-Girlfriend

This is your current man’s ex-girlfriend. They had a “special bond”. They still keep in contact and remain friends. Which wouldn't be a problem if she didn't depend on him emotionally for comfort. She will call him crying after she gets laid off from her job or realizes she is with a loser who treats her bad. She will never completely let go. Secretly, she is waiting on him to dump you so she can step back in. Careful, she may even be a baby momma.

5. The Golddigger

This is the one who can smell a man with money miles away. She may be someone he works with. Perhaps a secretary, or the cute receptionist he passes every day while coming into the office. She is not there to pursue her own career achievements and success. She is there to find a husband. I guarantee you she will do whatever it takes to try to get him to sleep with her. Part of her plan is to seduce your man, get him to leave you. She does not care about the man at all. She is in it to win it and her financial security is the prize.

6. The Sex Kitten

She is similar to the sluttish friend and the low self esteem chick, but she realizes that she has nothing to offer a man but her body. She has little to no personality and isn’t the brightest. She places her energy into maintaining her looks. She has nothing else to offer. Not only does she realize this, she accepts it! She also knows all men’s weakness. Sex! So, she uses sex to seduce men. She could be lurking anywhere, making her the most difficult to keep away.

Friday, January 1, 2016


Thursday, December 31, 2015

THE 3 C'S OF LIFE.....

Choices, Chances & Changes
You must make a choice to take a chance,
 or your life will never Change.

Wednesday, December 30, 2015


This short course in flirting will not only teach you how to flirt, but also tell when someone is flirting with you, and how to respond.

FLIRT;   to behave as though attracted to or trying to attract someone, but for amusement rather than serious intentions.


Make Eye Contact
One of the best ways to let someone know that you're interested and approachable is to make eye contact from across the room.  Don't stare!  Nobody likes a stalker, but let your look linger long enough to establish a clear connection.


Expect Reality
You're flirting, not proposing.  So keep your expectations in line with the activity.  

RULE #3 

Don't Overthink It 
Anxiety sets in about the uncertainty that comes with approaching someone that you've never met.  Stop worrying about how you look, or the perfect opening line and letting your brain get in the way.  Just dive in!!!


Subtle teasing is a good way to flirt with a member of either sex.  Most guys like women who are sassy and aren't afraid to challenge them a little.  Most women enjoy a man that will engage in a lil back and forth.


Reserve Judgement
Lack of chemistry is one thing, but don't be quick to reject someone based on one minor mishap.  9 times out of 10 you're both nervous.  So give them the benefit of the doubt, and keep talking.


Lean In
Use body language to show you're interested, open and ready for more.


Bump Elbows
I got this one from a movie I saw.  A quick bump of the elbows not only softens the mood, but provides familiarity and suggest there is more touching ahead.


Flirt Online
Modern technology has made it easy to flirt with people you may never actually meet.  Also because nearly everyone has a smartphone, you can flirt from anywhere 24/7.


Send Over A Drink
Because every great story starts with drinks.  Lol.

RULE #10

Dance To The Music
If you've made it this far.... DANCE TO THE MUSIC LIKE NO ONE IS WATCHING!!!

Monday, December 28, 2015

To find the right person, you have to become the person you wanna find.

Thursday, December 24, 2015

Don't worry, it'll all be PERFECT in the end. If things are not perfect...ITS NOT THE END!