"BEHIND CLOSED DOORS"...Pleasing Her

Men, what i'm about to share with you is priceless, and should come with a fee, but this one's on me.

Now just because you have an erection, doesn't mean its time to get busy. WOMEN NEED FOREPLAY TOO! They need good blood flow just like you. A decrease in blood flow can diminish her sexual response.

First of all, every woman has a treasure chest inside of  her, that most men don't even know exists. Check this out, it's usually a non-body part. It could be her intellect, her wild side or maybe her sense of humor. A wise man once said, "make her laugh, that's half the battle". When a man discovers this, and comes to appreciate and love that part of her, he gets the girl emotionally and sexually. That's when she feels she's being loved completely. Tip: If you're not sure whats in her treasure chest, listen carefully the next time she's around her family. Notice the compliments that make her sparkle.

Only 20 to 30 percent of women reach orgasm through penetration alone. Face it, for some women "digging her back out" is just not gonna do it all the time. Some women need to be really excited. Slow down and put in some work. Think VENIS; Very Erotic NonInsertive Sex.

Try stimulating her without the sexual contact. Maybe washing her hair, a massage with warm oil, gently touch her face while looking into her eyes, and give her the most passionate kiss of her life. Cuddle and run your fingers through her hair. Feel with feeling.

The clitoris has almost double the nerve endings than a penis, so obviously it needs lots of attention. Some women like direct stimulation of their clitoris, others prefer the area around it.  Find what turns her on and look for different ways to hit that switch every time. One of the biggest misconceptions, men assume that an orgasm is the end all-be all for women. Not the case. Faking orgasms is so wide spread because of the importance MEN attach to an orgasm. Research says seventy five percent of women have faked it! Just to stroke the male ego. No pun intended.

Women experience 3 different type of orgasms. Clitoral (the one most men focus on) which results from direct stimulation of the clitoris and surrounding tissue. Pelvic floor orgasms stem from much further down and involves vaginal and uterine contractions triggered by deep penetration (that deeper, deeper moan). Then there's the blended orgasm (the full body) the ultimate, which contains the elements of both.

Men remember this!!!....Men feel intimate as a result of being sexual. Women feel sexual as a result of being intimate.