MAKING A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP WORK!!!

Relationships are far from easy. Long distance relationships are even harder, takes more out of both you. Rather than give up what could be a great opportunity because of distance, here are ways to keep an LDR strong.

You should ALWAYS be on the same page. The relationship is bound to fail if the two of you want different things. Come up with a plan of what you need from one another and decide the best way to go about being there for each other.

Make your presence obvious. Small surprises are a simple way to bring a smile, no matter how many miles apart you are. A card, a small gift or maybe flowers and candy, as if you were in each other's presence.

Reach out to their friends. The last thing you want is to be known as "the person that lives 1,000 miles away, that keeps their friend from having any fun." Get to know who is special in their lives other than relatives. Make the friends look forward to your visits also. It’ll make your mate feel luckier to have you around when friends approve of you. 

Give each other small memories: Maybe give her a t-shirt with her favorite cologne on it to wear to bed or keep a photo or two of him on your cell. If you care about each other enough, a small reminder will be enough to keep you wanting more and working towards the two of you.

Let’s Text About Sex, Baby...Need I say more?

Schedule dates: It’s still possible to do things together despite the oceans and states between you. See when movies are playing that you would normally watch together. Schedule when to watch it at the same time. You will feel closer and you’ll have something to talk about after.

Video chat. Seeing each other is a big part of dating. Take pictures and send them to each other. You see a motorcycle on the street you know he wants. Picture message it and tell him you can’t wait to "ride it,"  oops! I mean to ride on it with him. It’s important to remind each other that you’re thinking about one another. 

Enforce healthy lifestyles for each other: It’s hard to impact each other’s daily actions when you're not near. Set up competitions: Who can walk or run the most miles a week? Who can eat a healthier lunch? It’s important to still have a positive impact on your partner no matter how far away they are.

Make your time together worth it: If you trust each other enough, you will feel nothing but excitement on that plane ride to see one another. NEVER hide your feelings and make sure you talk everything through in a "civil" manner so that when you see each other, you have nothing but butterflies- the good kind.

The most important way to have a successful LDR is to have faith and hope in your relationship and in each other. It is not easy, but put your strength together and you can definitely make it.

IF A PERSON ONLY CALLS YOU WHEN THEY WANT SOMETHING......

ONLY ANSWER WHEN YOU NEED SOMETHING......

Money might not make you happy .....But happy will make you money

BIRDS OF A FEATHER!!

Someone said, just because you hang with certain people doesn't mean you act like them or do what they do. I say,  hang at the barbershop long enough you're bound to get a haircut!  Be careful, When you look at your closest friends, you look at yourself in the mirror.....You only surround yourself with people and actions that you're comfy cozy with...And thats a FACT!

6 TYPE OF WOMEN TO KEEP AWAY FROM YOUR MAN!!!

You cannot be with a man 24 hours a day, and there must be trust in every relationship. Some men are weak and sometimes need assistance in preventing themselves from getting in trouble. This is why there are certain women that you, as his wife/girlfriend/ fiancé, keep him as far away from as possible. 

1. The Low Self Esteem Chick

You know this girl. The girl with self esteem so low that she will do almost anything for attention from a male. It does not matter how minimal the attention is, she will take it. She is lacking self love and wants someone to confirm it for her. She needs men to tell her how beautiful and wonderful she is constantly. Her antics appear to be over the top because they are a cry for attention from anyone with a penis.

2. The Sluttish Friend

She is the chick in your crew who is a sweet heart and would give you her paycheck and food stamps if you needed it, BUT (always a but with people who are too nice) she is a whore, and also a border line nympho. She will sleep with anyone, doesn't matter if he is in a relationship, married, or your daddy. Her only goal is to get hers. She is the chick that will hate on you at the club when she notices that guys are giving you more attention than her. She will always be the one to do something "sluttish" to attract male attention.

3. The Model Chick

She gets a break because truth be told, she cannot help that she is gorgeous, or modelesque. Blame God for that one. This chick might be a good person at heart and have no ill intentions towards you or your relationship. The only problem with her is that she is every man’s dream girl. Despite her innocence in this, just to prevent temptation on your man’s part, keep these two as far apart as possible.

4. The Needy/Annoying Ex-Girlfriend

This is your current man’s ex-girlfriend. They had a “special bond”. They still keep in contact and remain friends. Which wouldn't be a problem if she didn't depend on him emotionally for comfort. She will call him crying after she gets laid off from her job or realizes she is with a loser who treats her bad. She will never completely let go. Secretly, she is waiting on him to dump you so she can step back in. Careful, she may even be a baby momma.

5. The Golddigger

This is the one who can smell a man with money miles away. She may be someone he works with. Perhaps a secretary, or the cute receptionist he passes every day while coming into the office. She is not there to pursue her own career achievements and success. She is there to find a husband. I guarantee you she will do whatever it takes to try to get him to sleep with her. Part of her plan is to seduce your man, get him to leave you. She does not care about the man at all. She is in it to win it and her financial security is the prize.

6. The Sex Kitten

She is similar to the sluttish friend and the low self esteem chick, but she realizes that she has nothing to offer a man but her body. She has little to no personality and isn’t the brightest. She places her energy into maintaining her looks. She has nothing else to offer. Not only does she realize this, she accepts it! She also knows all men’s weakness. Sex! So, she uses sex to seduce men. She could be lurking anywhere, making her the most difficult to keep away.

"Remember you cannot change what you won't confront" - DR MIKE MURDOCH

THE 3 C'S OF LIFE.....

Choices, Chances & Changes

You must make a choice to take a chance,

 or your life will never Change.

NAS

Dress The Part!!!